
When you think of the word “fellowship,” what comes to mind? Do you think of church events, or do you think of relationship with one another? Fellowship is about sincere relationship with one another. Fellowship is not about church picnics, potlucks, or conducting small talk in the “fellowship hall” before and after church while snacking on some doughnuts and sipping on orange juice. These can be used for fellowship, but it goes far beyond that. Fellowship is about real people—real Christians—meeting each other’s real needs and coming together to fulfill the Church mission. The key passage to understanding Christian fellowship, I believe, comes from Acts 2:42-47:
And they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And we came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.


The early Christians were also devoted to the prayers, meaning they had a prayerful life. It was just a regular part of their daily life. Because of their prayerful life, it is highly likely they were praying for one another frequently, which I honestly don’t see a lot of today. People often say to me, “I’ll pray for you,” and I wonder: Do they really? I’m sure many of you can relate. How often have you told someone you’ll pray for them, but never followed through because you “forgot”? If you tell someone you’ll pray for them, keep that promise! I must admit I’m guilty of forgetting to pray for someone when I said I would. This is why I’ve developed the habit of having a prayer journal where I write down the person’s name and what I’m supposed to pray for, that way I don’t forget. If I don’t have it on me, I have a smartphone so I use that easy technology to use the Reminders app to jot it down. I highly recommend that every Christian get into this habit, because what good is it if you say you’ll pray for someone but never follow through?